Sera Bozza

Manifesting opens you, while micromanaging clamps you shut. The problem is, they can look identical from the outside. So how do you tell which one you’re doing?

We've been trained to want invisibly

Avoidance is far easier than honesty

The problem isn’t your phone; it’s what your phone has done to you. And going analog in your dating life is about remembering how powerful you are without it!

Self-awareness became dating's highest virtue. We are the most psychologically literate generation of daters in history. And somehow, also the most avoidant.

Our brains are not built for the volume of stimulation we're currently absorbing. And it's costing people more than they realise when it comes to finding and keeping love.

Your friends aren't giving you objective advice. They're running your new person through everything that's ever gone wrong in their relationships and reporting back.

If you want to be good at modern dating, the worst thing you can do is actually be good at relationships. That's not a paradox – it’s just how the system works now.

Why singles are rejecting date-maxxing

People used to hide their emotional unavailability. Now they explain it so well you mistake it for growth.