Liz Richardson

We want to hear all of your thoughts. If you're married, you can probably look back at the lessons you've learned and the surprises you faced that you wish you knew even before you tied the knot.

"The acronyms. Don't say 'lol.' It feels like you're mocking me!" Trends come and go from generation to generation.

What is it actually like to be a parent? Parents, you've learned a lot of lessons while raising your kids — and you likely have wisdom that

"Don't get married thinking you can change them. People rarely change, and things are less rose-colored when you're legally tied down to that person."

"The hardest part was pretending with family and friends in public that everything was good. In reality, he was the worst at home. It was so strange to watch women fawn over him like he was so great while I just thought, 'Wow, if you only knew.'"

"I have never wanted kids. I'm 43 and never changed my mind, regardless of people constantly telling me I would once I met 'the one.' I fell in love and still never wanted kids. I'm divorced and happy. I'm single because I'm not afraid to be and refuse to accept anyone who takes more than they contribute. I want to empower everyone to demand better."

I don't think I'll ever let go of pampas grass. Wedding trends have changed a lot over the years.

We want to hear your thoughts. If you're married, you can probably look back at the lessons you've learned and the surprises you faced that you wish you knew even before you tied the knot.

Honestly, pumpkin spice-flavored ramen just sounds like a bad idea. A while ago, we wrote a post where people shared things that got "ruined" when they became too popular.