By: Josh Korngut
There’s a pervasive medical myth that women’s bodies have been designed to forget the pain of childbirth. The reasoning for this is to better the odds that a woman would choose to go through the process again. I’m not sure if it became a legend by design or through folklore, but it is surely one of many ways women are trapped in the cycle of motherhood. This lie is both an acknowledgment of the brutality of the birthing process and a false promise of mercy. It plays on our preconceptions that childbearing is mystical, making it easier to assume there must be an innate system to subdue or prevent the grotesque suffering that it truly entails. Nightbitch by filmmaker Marielle Heller, and based on the novel by Rachel Yoder, pulls back the curtain on myths like these to offer an almost unbearably honest view of the suffering, grief, and incredible power of motherhood.